Good Night Adeniyi Aderemi, Rest In The Lord.
When some very useful donkeys got missing in Kish’s stable, he definitely must have been disturbed. Donkeys are beasts of burden used in farming and carrying heavy loads. The economic value of donkeys was so much to the Israelites. But when Saul and a faithful servant who went in search of the donkeys now became the ones to be searched for, the inconveniences heightened. Kish must have blamed himself uncountable times why he ever sent his son after the donkeys in the first instance. The loss of a few donkeys was manageable but the loss of a son is incalculable. What was behind this cascade of misfortunes?
You can read the story of the anointing of Saul in 1Samuel 9:1-20. Unpalatable circumstances do happen to us. Anti-people policies of government, mismanagement of national resources, business loss, betrayal of loved ones, bereavement, unemployment, disasters, wickedness of man to man, protracted sickness and famine are just few examples of the myriads of unpleasant occurrences we face in the world of today even as believers. Sometimes we are tempted to say “if God is with us, why has all this happened to us”? Judg 6:13
Yet we can be thankful that he is with us still. “Indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. (Ps121:4). What of our pains? Yes. Sometimes he allows pains, just as I regularly surrender my little boy to a health officer for injection to immunize him against polio and measles. “For he wounds, but he also binds up; he injures, but his hands also heal”. (Job 5:18) The writer of the letter to the Romans in (Rom8:28) said that He makes all things to work for good for those who love him, whom he has called according to his great purpose. May we seek to know this purpose (that we may be conformed to the image of JesusChrist) at all times even at unpalatable moments of our lives.
Kish’s son, Saul happened to be without equal in Israel at that time, head and shoulders taller than everyone and he was handsome. (1Sam9:2) He chose a diligent and trusted servant to go with him. Unknown to Saul this servant also knew God could help them. He had an offering in his pocket even when all supplies of food, wine and money provided for the journey had finished. He was not one who would shrink back in difficult times. Were these coincidences? No. The Sovereign God orchestrated everything. He chose the Kish family to actualise his plans the same way he chose Mary to be the mother of the Lord. He had told Samuel earlier that “About this time tomorrow I will send you a man from the land of Benjamin. Anoint him leader over my people Israel; he will deliver my people from the hand of the Philistines. I have looked upon my people, for their cry has reached me.” 1Sam 9:16 (emphasis mine)
So the discomfort and pains experienced by Kish’s family was actually a service to God, a fragrant offering holy and acceptable to God who planned it right from the beginning. (Rom12:1) So also was the trauma Lazarus, Martha and Mary went through for many people who witnessed the raising of Lazarus from death put their faith in Jesus. (Jn 11:1-45) Job, in the midst of his pains said God wounds but he also binds up. We have been privileged to see the purpose of God in the pains of Job, and we have seen how God restored him. It is a priviledge to suffer for the sake of Christ. How ready are you to be the answer to your prayers for the kingdom of God to come?
This was my consolation on Sunday 22nd July 2008 as I looked at the grave of Adeniyi, my younger brother, who died in the early hours of Saturday after a brief illness. I had prayed to God to let Niyi live. I sent prayer requests to my brethren and relations. God heard us, but not the way we expected and not according to our understanding. On the night of Niyi’s death, though almost 600km away and not knowing he would die soon, I had a strange feeling. I imagined myself being in his place and wanting to die. I felt a strange peace at the thought of me departing this cruel world. But I drifted to sleep. In my dream, Niyi and I worked frantically cleaning the house. We cleared junks away and packed everything neatly. When the phone rang the next day heralding the news, I was shocked. But as I prayed, the thought filled my heart that I will see Niyi one day when we gather to meet Jesus in the sky. We may not always know what purpose our pains and suffeings serve in the grand plan of God, but as believers we trust him. God is love.
So why would I want to depart this world? A ready answer would be “So that I may be with the Lord” Good but that was not the only reason. And was that the Lord’s wish? In John 17:15, Jesus prayed to God to not take us away from this wicked world before the full time, but to keep us safe from the evil one. He prayed like that because he needs us here to continue spreading the goodnews of the Kingdom of God despite the difficulties and pains. My confession here is that I really wanted to escape the sorrows and pains of continuing to live in this world and I want to rest. I did not want to mourn my younger brother. This, I must say, is a selfish desire. We must not shrink back in times of sufferings. It is up to God to say time is up. He wants us here for the sake of others who have not known Him. Apostle John made it very clear in 1Jn 3:16
Our hope is this “Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. According to the Lord’s own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever”. 1Thess 4:13-17
Perhaps you are not yet saved as you read this. Today is the day of salvation. Open your heart to Jesus now. He is knocking. Simply ask him to come into your heart and take over your life. Act now, don’t delay.
Till we see again Adeniyi Aderemi, when we shall part no more, rest.


